Handcuffs, lingerie, and whipped cream are cool and everything, but they require efforts that could be employed in other areas.
Being introverted, we value our independence to an extreme at times.
I broke it off with this guy a few days ago.
He may be thinking that you were just making conversation when you asked if he was spontaneous, and may have no idea this is bothering you as much as it is.
But when you are dating a guy who is a complete chiller, what you get is more happy moments than sad ones.
It makes me feel like we are on the same page about life instead of these alien creatures to each other.
The rest is up to you to discover.
My biggest fear is that he's happy to go along with what I want, while not being fully into it.
Interestingly, I always go for guys who are NOT this way.
Only one way to find out.
I have to agree.